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“Single Shouldn’t Suck is an invitation into an adventure of bold bravery that encourages singles to break free from the constraints of societal pressures and write your own wild and wonderful story.”
- Lisa Bevere, NYT Bestselling Author & Speaker
"Every season matters and the season of singleness often gets overlooked as a stepping stone towards marriage. In her brave and hilarious narration, Esther Marie shares from her personal story how God has transformed her outlook on finding love and learning to embrace the life right in front of her. If you're feeling lost or alone in your singleness this book is for you!"
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If he wanted to, he would Book
You know the drill: mixed signals, half-hearted effort, and you bending over backwards to prove you’re “worth choosing.” Newsflash—if he wanted to, he would. And if he doesn't, you don’t need to stick around hoping he changes.
In this bold follow-up to her bestselling book Single Shouldn’t Suck, Esther Marie exposes why so many women settle for situationships and bare-minimum pursuit—and how to break free. With belly-aching wit, wisdom, and a little tough love, she’ll help you rewire what (and who) you’re attracted to, set a higher standard, and finally experience the kind of intentional pursuit you’ve been praying for.
It’s time to stop chasing and start being chosen.
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Hi Esther, I just wanted to thank you in person for sharing your stories of singleness in 'Single shouldn't suck' with the world. I might have bought the book as a comfort-gift for myself following a breakup, but WOW! Reading your stories felt like someone was grabbing my hand in the midst of my heartbreak, telling me that someone understood my feelings and thoughts, and most importantly - the storyline of your book filled me with so much hope that everything WILL be alright again...
I finished your book!! Oh my goodness was it SO GOOD! It is so eye opening to good community and living your best life. It makes me want to take so many trips and just spend time loving life! It seems to always be so busy and so serious and I want to freaking live!! Your book reminds me of a sweet image, it makes me think of sitting in the stillness and quietness and letting go of stress and worry, and just be. Your book makes me want to br free! I'm planning trips right now with some of my best friends and I'm hoping to really live my best life, loving and laughing and following the Lord.
Hi Esther, I came across your book while I was going through the, "being single" plan on the YouVersion Bible app. I wanted to share that I have been enjoying listening to your book and found that you hit on a number of points I myself have face/ navigated in life. A lot of the things you pointed out. The anger and frustration that comes from question like, "is there something wrong with me? Why am I overlooked? Is God angry with me?" Also the frustration that comes from friend and family, while they mean well with there comments it can come across hurtful. "Your too picky." "You'll know the one, when it arrives." "When you stop looking, they will arrive." I am about 3 hrs left of the book. But wanted to thank you for this. It's good to hear from someone that, it's ok to be single. Your not broken, your not too picky, your not a misfit toy. Thank you.
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Hey there, I'm ESTHER MARIE
Esther’s message offers biblical truth paired with brow-raising stories to guide you along your journey of self-discovery. She holds a degree in Ministerial Leadership from SEU and Biblical Theology from LCU.
As co-founder of the Christian Entrepreneur Club and five time author, Esther and her husband Cody are passionate about building businesses that infuse heaven into the marketplace. Her unique approach on singleness, dating, and relationships evokes wonder and restores optimism for finding love by intelligent design.
With a hunger for adventure and a knack for sniffing out the best coffee in town, you can catch Esther riding waves near her home in California or eating tacos with her husband and husky Zeus.
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